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Dina Djevali from Syria: I have lived through utter misery, nothing is difficult for me in Bulgaria

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The survival of millions of people around the world, living in conditions of war, hunger, disease and immense despair, is at stake every day. We often approach immigrants from such countries with hostility rather than understanding. What they have experienced by the time they reach Bulgaria may be a real nightmare of unimaginable proportions. The life of Dina Djevali, forced to flee Syria three years after the war began, is further proof of these words:

"During war, you see and experience a lot of bad things. When I say bad, though, I'm not sure people understand exactly what I mean. There are horrible things here and everywhere, but the levels of "horribleness" there are completely different," Dina says firmly. "I remember something that had a huge impact on me, related to my best friend, Nizar. He was supposed to join the army, which is mandatory in Syria. I remember that one night before he left, he called me and asked me to promise that I would take care of myself. I promised him, but a few months later I found out that he had died. His parents wanted to organize a funeral, but he was found in an area from which they refused to hand over the body. In the end, the parents still held a memorial service, even though his body was missing. A few days later, they found out that his body was in the hospital, and his mother went to identify the body. However, she could not, because it was too hot where he was found and there was not much of the body left. My aunt managed to recognize him, they organized a second funeral… But why am I telling you this story? I see that in Bulgaria, and everywhere, people feel bad when someone passes away. This is normal. But I want to say that death is not the same for everyone. A death like Nizar's, in which parts of his body are missing and his mother cannot identify him, is more terrible than someone passing away in their own bed surrounded by family."

While in Syria, Dina worked for a telecommunications company based in Damascus. Her family was based in another city, about 70 kilometers from the capital. The young woman lived alone in an area on the border between the government-controlled and rebel-controlled areas of the city.

"One morning I woke up with a bad feeling that made me stay at home. Shortly after, bombs started raining down. It felt like it lasted for hours during which there was no electricity or water. Only later did I find out that there had been a bomb attack by the government-controlled area on the rebel-controlled area. As a result, there were many victims who had to be avenged," Dina says, recalling yet another painful story from her daily life in Syria.

In such moments, a person feels completely defenseless and at a complete dead end. All she could do was put her hands on her head and sit on the floor to wait for it to pass, Dina notes, adding:


"That's why when I arrived in Bulgaria, nothing is difficult for me anymore and nothing can stop me. I saw and experienced a time when you really have no chance of doing anything. It's not like that here, but people just forget that easily."

Dina came to Bulgaria at the end of 2013, but until recently she hadn't shared with anyone about what she had experienced in her war-torn homeland. She visited a therapist to help her overcome the stress and start her life anew. After several IVF procedures, she managed to become a mother and does not hide that her son Harry is the greatest gift she had ever dreamed of:


"I have to admit that today I am not part of either the Syrian or the Lebanese community in Bulgaria. This is my way of truly being part of the Bulgarian environment, because if I stayed in the Syrian one, it would be very difficult for me. That's why I deactivated my Facebook account, because I decided that I couldn't build my life in Bulgaria and look at my friends who stayed in Syria. I just felt that I couldn't give 100% of myself to the life I have here. It wasn't easy, maybe it wasn't right, but that's all I could do. When I left Syria, I never returned, unlike my parents, who travel every summer. My family is here, I can't say that I still have friends in Syria. My life is here, in Bulgaria, and I'm not looking back," says confidently the Syrian woman who chose Bulgaria as the place where to put her dreams to reality.

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